[Maria]

When you take some $ out of the joint account, buy yourself a Roomba Irobot vacumn that will vacumn w/o your help. They work pretty good and go under things. They're now at Target and maybe even CostCo. Probably a more reasonable idea is to delegate responsibilities to your children. Someone could vacumn for you. You've got to communicate to your children that you need recovery time which I doubt they have seen with you mobile so much and doing for others when you do need things done for you.

Maybe you'd want to consider counseling for you and your kids (family) even though I doubt you could get your dh to go with you all now maybe he would consider it in the future.

Ok will write more in the a.m. So very sleepy now! Maria