Alastair,
Please read Rick's post. (That is usually a good thing to do before responding.)
Do not post for others unless they specifically ask you to. Otherwise the meaning of their words may be changed as we have seen in this case. Your post misrepresents their story in a way that is misleading and inappropriate, as outlined by Rick, the patient's husband.
Your "hand washing" comment makes it seem that either:
- You completely miss the whole point of my private message, my post and Rick's post... or:
- You are intentionally being provocative.
Either way, posting in a manner that is not helpful to the community is not allowed here. I'd love for you to stay here and contribute, but only if you post in a positive and informative manner.
All the best,
Mark