when enough is enough
Then things become clearer.
You have to prioritize and think of what is needed right now.
Make the appt for ASAP consultation.
Hire someone to help with the baby.
Line up care for imminent surgery.
If you have the luxury of getting several surgical opinions do (as in if it's not emergent) though if you trust your current surgeon you may want to go with whatever he says.
Either way you need help with your baby as I'm sure there is no way to get around taking care of your baby or children and putting them first vs. yourself unless you're absolutely bedridden and can't move (which you may be getting to if your spasms are violent enough).
Sorry CindyLou but you've been dealt the stack of cards that are loaded. I hope you can get everything taken care of in a way that affords you the time and comfort to make sure your baby/family is well situated no matter what lies ahead.
Hang in there CL!!!
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