[dshobbies]

Judy, Judy, Judy-

It is not for me to comment on the strength of your marriage but it is in trouble.

My immediate advise is a marriage councelor. (S)he will tell your husband how unsupportive he's been and recommend a course of action to stabalize your relationship. You have much to cope with so letting someone else take the reins on your marriage will free up you mind, at least to some extent, to give you time for healing and classes.

My guess, without really knowing either one of you is that he is as frustrated with your back as your are. He thought he could escape the whole thing by leaving but his love for you called him back. At least this is my version but still warrants intervention.

I'm really so sorry- Dale