[dshobbies]

Judy,

I've heard in divorces he who has the best attorney wins. However, Jeff clearly created all the problems and you are incapable of creating solutions so regardless, I think Jeff will receive a substancial financial burden.

Another friend divorced many years ago and her husband did some very underhanded manuvering like charging up charge cards and selling certain assets. The judge saw through the whole thing and declared he and he alone was responsible for his expenses.

If Jeff has been spending money foolishly, perhaps he alone will have to bear the burden. Until the hearing before a judge, you just never know what will be handed down. And in light of your physical limitations, any judge would understand you cannot support yourself or our children. I hope you get a good one.

Sorry, I'm on drugs today and can't keep my eyes open. More tomorrow
Dale