Advice Welcome - and Really Needed!

[Ellabelle]

Again, many thanks to all of you who have shared your advice and wisdom. I plan to become a regular reader here, and I'll never forget how you've come alongside me to get through this little crisis.

Mark, thank you for moving my thread to the proper place - I was so new and so panicked I didn't stop to learn my way around. And thank you for the encouraging private message - I responded but am not sure how to check whether it went through.