Think my 2 best options are.... Any Advice?

Maria · #1 (**permalink**) 07-25-2011, 12:03 AM

I really dislike hearing only one option is available to me. It might be true at this point (my age and how long I've let things go however if someone can give me a good reason physiologically/structurally/or medically why I'd not be a good candidate for other options that carries more weight but I dislike when surgeons discount one thing over another just because they don't or can't perform a certain surgery. That's not being considerate of the patient's true needs and I too say walk away and think about this while looking to get more opinions from surgeons that might perform fusion and ADR or at least be open to the idea and or suggest other options.

cherylstewart67 · #2 (**permalink**) 07-25-2011, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Maria

I really dislike hearing only one option is available to me. It might be true at this point (my age and how long I've let things go however if someone can give me a good reason physiologically/structurally/or medically why I'd not be a good candidate for other options that carries more weight but I dislike when surgeons discount one thing over another just because they don't or can't perform a certain surgery. That's not being considerate of the patient's true needs and I too say walk away and think about this while looking to get more opinions from surgeons that might perform fusion and ADR or at least be open to the idea and or suggest other options.

i do not understand how in good concience a doctor would not tell you what else is out there, but mine didn't. keeping information from someone is the same as lying to me. i cant go back now though. but moving forward i pray there are other options...

dshobbies · #3 (**permalink**) 07-25-2011, 05:43 PM

My first disco/lami was an emergency and I don't think there were many other options in 1994 anyway. However, I trusted that same doctor in 2002 to do another great service to me when the next level went south. He performed another disco/lami knowing it would probably fail and involve yet another level. He knew the odds and the other remedies out there, whether he believed in them or not. He was not 'legally' obligated to tell me about them because ADRs were not yet FDA approved. Second surgery failed within the year.

This doctor was highly respected in his field and considered a top surgeon. My anger has subsided over the years but had I realized some doctors serve themselves first, I would have done my own research or at least, get a second opinion.

Currently, a good friend, whose back has been getting worse over the years, was ready to go for her doctor recommended 4 level lumbar fusion. Blue Cross denied the four level but approved a 2 level. She didn't call me because she knew she'd get an earful- but then why would she just follow her surgeon blindly? Her husband had a successful dicso/lami 15+ years ago and is pushing her toward surgery. But a 4 level fusion?????? What kind of doctor is he, a sadist? I gave her the names of Dr. Regan and Delamarter for second opinions. Stay tuned.